“We’re Her Family Now.”
Many years ago, when we were missionaries in the Philippines, we decided to buy a family pet. Kelly the Dalmati an joined our famil y, and our children were thrilled to pour their love on this newest family member. The first night we had Kelly, she was whimpering. Our 8 year old son cradled her like a baby and spoke words of comfort to the puppy. He said, “We’ll take you home tomorrow to see your mommy. Don’t be sad.” Then he buried his face into the puppy’s neck and cuddled with her. I heard him say this and simply stated the facts. “She won’t ever see her mother again. We’re her family now .” The next thing I heard was heart breaking, shoulder shaking sobbing. I immediately regretted my blunt communication. To a child who had just been uprooted from all he knew and plopped down in a foreign country—he couldn’t handle anymore simple truth. My words were true, but my delivery was abrupt causing another pain. I went