Years ago, I worked in a Childcare teaching the little ones music. Sometimes while singing or playing instruments we would jump, stomp, crawl, twirl, skip, or march. One time during a marching around songs we were swinging our arms, and one little four year old boy accidentally bumped heads with another boy. I saw it unfold right before my eyes and anticipated that things were going to turn ugly quickly. I could not have testified in a court of law whose fault it was.
The boys each stopped grabbed their heads and looked at each other. The looks on their faces were priceless. Do I cry? Am I mad? Did he hit me on purpose? Did I hit him? Then suddenly one blurts out. “I’m sorry! Are you okay?” Immediately they resumed their marching, swinging their arms and singing.
Everything hung in the balance for about five seconds. It was no ones fault. It was an accident. What could have been tears and the demise of music class for both boys turned out to be a few second incident that was easily resolved because one boy responded correctly.
"May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer." (Psalm 19:14 )
This week you may find yourself in a head bumping situation. Are you prepared to respond correctly?
Did I Hit You or Did You Hit Me?
By Beverly Joy Roberts